Big family meals, office holiday parties, and festive happy hours. There’s this misconception that only introverts need alone time and extroverts can just keep going and going. Well guess, what? We all need time that’s just for us. As we move into the holiday season it might seem counter-intuitive to think about alone time. But with all the awesome craziness that comes with the end of the year, it could be just what you need.
I love meeting new people, joking around with strangers, and connecting with people I care about. But as social as I am and as social as our students become, alone time is still vital. My close friends can attest to me freaking out and needing alone time after social binges.
Blaise Pascal, the seventeenth century French philosopher, said, “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” So apparently we had a hard time just being on our own way before we had smart phones and the endless internet to distract the hell out of us.
This holiday season, in-between time with family and friends, remember to take care of yourself and make time for you too.